Changes

People changed because they were tired of being who they used to be. They always try to be better than they were yesterday thinking other people would be pleased and be satisfied with the changes. That’s how changes occurred. That’s what drives people to change.

To please other people.

To be accepted by the world.

To have the feeling of belonging.

If you’re bad, you choose to be good because bad people just don’t have a place in this world. If you’re a loser, you desire to achieve something because losers faces demeans. If you felt like being a ‘nobody’, you decide to have a purpose because being a ‘nobody’ also means nothing.

Change is the only permanent thing in this world. Change is forever. It’s endless.

If you’re the kind of I-don’t-want-to-please-anybody person, like you don’t want to change yourself just to please anyone, then maybe you’re wrong. You may not even realize it, but you changed. You are not the same person than before and you just don’t want to admit it. You want people to like you.

But no matter how you changed yourself for the better, people will always have something to say. And that’s where this ‘thing’ enters the picture – acceptance.

Change is a good thing because you’re evolving yourself to be better than before; to right the wrongs and to give yourself another chance. However, you have to accept the fact that you can’t make everybody’s day. And it shouldn’t be the reason why you changed in the first place.

You have to keep in mind that you changed, because it’s for your own good. Not for others. You changed because you choose to, not because others tell you to.